In English
Are we bothered about all that we see in the world? No. But we are worried about people or things we consider as related to us. Before your marriage, you did not know anything about your wife or her problems. But a few moments after the marriage, you get worried when she gets a headache. You will even apply leave for her sake. It is because you developed attachment towards her. Life is a play of the mind along with its attachments and detachments. You have suffering due to attachment. When you are able to give up attachment, all your problems will vanish.