Passage 12

In English

At the time of (giving away the daughter as charity) , in accordance with the injunctions of the Scriptures said, “I am giving my daughter as charity to You.” The groom was then expected to say, “I accept your daughter”, but remained silent without uttering a single word. The priest who was officiating at the marriage said to , “Oh ! The auspicious moment is getting over; hurry up and say, ‘I accept your daughter.’” then replied, “Those in the lineage never accept charity. Since you have used the word after the word , I cannot accept her. Those in the dynasty only give charity and never accept it. If you remove the word after , I am prepared to accept her.” who understood the mind of , withdrew the word after the word . Thn, said, “I accept your daughter.” According to the Indian tradition, the bridegroom should make the promise (I will please her with regard to wealth, desire, and righteousness). refused to give such a promise for He felt that one should be ready to renounce one’s partner in life if she came between Him and His people. So, He vowed, “The welfare of my subjects is of Supreme importance to Me. If I find that she displeases My subjects, I will renounce her.” That is how set high standards of conduct as a ruler. The rulers of those days were particular about every word they uttered, for they would never go back on their word.