In plain words
People take the name Kausalyā, but no one takes the name Kaika or Mantharā. Kīcaka cast evil looks. As a result, Bhīma smashed his head. Does any man today take the name of Kīcaka? No one does. The world scorns those who spoke bad words, those who listened to bad words, and those who cast evil looks.
Remembering the Name, and purity of heart
Once Añjanā Devī, Hanumān's mother, came to Kausalyā's home. “Mother! Who are you?” Kausalyā asked. “Mother! I am the mother of Hanumān, the great hero who leapt across the vast ocean in a single bound,” she replied. A little later Agastya's mother too came there. “Mother! Who are you?” Kausalyā asked; and: “Mother! I am the mother of Agastya, who swallowed the whole ocean in one gulp,” she answered. Then Kausalyā said, “Surely your sons achieved such mighty deeds only by the glory of my son's Name.” Just then Rāma came in: “Mother! This is not the greatness of My Name; the purity of their hearts is itself the root cause of it. Are there not so many who utter My Name? But are they all able to achieve such mighty deeds? So there is no gain in merely remembering the Name. There must be purity of heart as well,” he said.
Purity, calm, perseverance: whoever has these three is equal to God, the very embodiment of Brahman. You must hold firm in good things. However many troubles you meet, you must stay calm. You must not scramble after name and fame. You must keep your heart pure. This is the sādhana you must do.
The Rāmāyaṇa offers many ideals. Though many thousands of years have passed since the Rāmāyaṇa took place, people of all countries and all languages still revere it. The sacredness in the Rāmāyaṇa is the reason for this. The Rāmāyaṇa gives fresh inspiration time after time. For many years you have been celebrating the festival of Rāma Navamī; you receive prasādam; you drink pānakam.