20. The Rule about Speaking Truth

Truth is a virtue of the highest order, yet it must be spoken with wisdom and discretion. Even when the truth is undeniable, one must be mindful of the timing and manner in which it is conveyed.

Imagine a gentleman deeply immersed in a sacred ritual, experiencing joy and peace. Now, if you have unpleasant news to deliver, would you disrupt his mental tranquility by sharing it immediately?

While you may feel a sense of duty in conveying the truth, have you considered the impact it may have? Would delaying the news until a more appropriate moment cause any harm? Certainly not. On the contrary, it would prevent unnecessary distress and allow him to complete his religious observances with a calm mind.

This is why it is said that even when speaking the truth, one must exercise discrimination and convey it in the gentlest possible manner, especially when it is likely to cause pain. At the same time, truth should never be sacrificed for the sake of temporary comfort. Suppose a student has failed an examination, and his roll number does not appear on the pass list. If you falsely assure him that he has passed with distinction just to make him momentarily happy, what happens when he later discovers the reality? The disappointment and humiliation he experiences will be far greater than the fleeting joy you provided.

Thus, never speak a lie, even if it seems harmless or momentarily uplifting. The consequences of deception, however small, can be intense. Instead, let truth be spoken with compassion and wisdom, ensuring it does not cause undue anguish. Truth must be softened with tact, but it must never be distorted. ❀❀❀❀