Verse 19
Three kinds of loving· Verses 16–19
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श्रीभगवानुवाच ।मिथो भजन्ति ये सख्यः स्वार्थैकान्तोद्यमा हि ते ।न तत्र सौहृदं धर्मः स्वार्थार्थं तद्धि नान्यथा
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16Some love in return those who love them; some do the opposite; and some love neither of the two. Sir, explain this to us properly. 17Bhagavan said: Friends, those who love one another in return are working only for their own sake. There is no friendship in that, and no dharma: it is for their own sake and nothing else. 18Those who love those who do not love them, out of tenderness, as parents do: in them, slender-waisted ones, there is dharma with nothing to be said against it, and there is friendship. 19Some do not love even those who love them, let alone those who do not: those who take their pleasure in the self, those whose wants are already met, the ungrateful, and those who do harm to their teachers.